My Fiancé Wants a DNA Test Before Marriage

Marriage without trust is like a house without a foundation, it will eventually collapse. If doubts already exist before the wedding, they must be addressed, not ignored. It’s okay to pause and seek clarity. Love requires trust, and trust must be mutual. Don’t rush into a lifetime commitment carrying questions in your heart. Peace of mind in marriage is priceless.

Below 👇 is the message I got...

Good day. I am a 28-year-old woman engaged to be married. Recently, my fiancé told me something that left me shocked. He said that once we have children, he wants us to do a DNA test for them. His explanation was that it’s just for his peace of mind and that he’s seen too many stories of men raising kids that aren’t theirs.

I love him, but I feel insulted and hurt. I have never given him any reason to doubt me, so this request feels like he doesn’t trust me at all. I don’t know whether to ignore it and go ahead with the wedding or to see it as a sign that he doesn’t truly believe me.

Is this something small I should overlook, or is it a serious red flag that I should reconsider this marriage?

What advice do you have for her?