My Husband Loves Our Son More Than Our Daughter

First, I want to assure you that your feelings are valid. Children are very sensitive, and they notice even the smallest differences in love and attention. If your daughter already feels neglected at just 10, it can affect her self-esteem and how she views herself for years to come.

What you need to do now is find a way to address this issue directly but calmly with your husband. Instead of accusing him, explain the impact of his actions: “Our daughter feels unloved, and this can damage her emotionally.” Sometimes, men don’t realize how serious their behavior is until you show them the consequences.

Meanwhile, as a mother, do everything you can to affirm your daughter. Spend time with her, encourage her, remind her she is loved and valued. Make sure she knows that being female does not make her lesser than her brother.

Also, try family bonding activities where both children participate equally. For example, let your husband join you in cooking with your daughter or playing games with both kids. Slowly, he might begin to see her importance in a new light.

Please don’t give up. Many children have grown distant from their parents because of favoritism, but with early intervention, you can prevent this. Keep fighting for your daughter — she needs you.

Below 👇 is the message I got 

I am a 38-year-old woman married for 12 years with two children, a 10-year-old daughter and an 8-year-old son. My problem is that my husband seems to love our son more than our daughter, and it is breaking my heart.

Whenever we go shopping, he spends more on our son’s clothes, shoes, and toys. He always brags about him being “the man of the house,” even though he’s just a little boy. But with our daughter, he barely pays attention to her. She once told me, “Mommy, I don’t think Daddy loves me as much as he loves my brother.” Hearing that from a child was like a knife in my chest.

Even at home, if our son misbehaves, my husband excuses it, saying “boys will be boys.” But if our daughter does the same, he shouts at her and punishes her. I’ve spoken to him several times, but he says I’m overreacting and that children don’t notice these things. But I see it. My daughter sees it. She is gradually withdrawing, and I fear she may grow up with bitterness.

I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want my children to grow up with resentment toward each other or toward their father. Please, I need advice.

Parents, what’s your take on this? How can this mother help her husband see that favoritism is hurting their daughter? Have you ever experienced or noticed something similar in your home?

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